It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80’s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor’s appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer’s Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, “And you still go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?”
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, “She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.”
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, ‘That is the kind of love I want in my life.’
Love is always unconditional. It is not because of any reason. Therefore, love is enduring, ageless, timeless.
On the other hand, attachment is always conditional and depends on certain reason. Once that reason is removed, the so-called attachment will also disappear.
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be.
Sometimes our heart needs more time to accept what our mind already knows.
“Real magic in relationships means an absence of judgement of others!” – Wayne Dyer
We don’t meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our path for a reason.